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  • Writer's pictureLaDeidra N. Wooten, BSN, RN, CCM, LMT "Nurse Dei"

Why Don't They Like You?

First of all, I'm worried about myself and if I like me.

I do, so 🤷🏾‍♀️

Then, the people who love me come next. That's where I devote my energy to.




💥Nurse Dei-ism Those other folks. Well. 🤷🏾‍♀️

Anybody who doesn't like me, it's only because I said "no".

Each scenario is because I said, "No, I won't do it like that or no, I don't agree with that."

So, is it my problem my no was reciprocated with dislike? Nope.

I promise you. No matter how sweet you are, you've got some folks who don't like you.

Think about why so that you can release that energy.

Yes, you are the common denominator. So, it's up to you to decide why you have had these scenarios.




They will explain it as, "Well, it was the way she talked, or the way she acted, or her tone, or how she did it."

When really in EVERY scenario, they felt like they were cut down, even if you just stood there and blinked.

When you are somebody, you will offend ALOT of somebodies even if you say the exact same things that others have said to them.

It's your tone because you're "condescending." 🤷🏾‍♀️

You wouldn't be "condescending" if they didn't feel like you had some authority or spoke with authority.

Children aren't called condescending. Coworkers aren't even called condescending. It is BOSSES that are called condescending and "It was the way she said it."

Remember that. If somebody doesn't like you, it's usually because you're a boss. Bosses are never liked by everyone. 🤷🏾‍♀️😉

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