Forgive and Make Changes

So guess what? You don't have to keep forgiving them. (And they don't have to keep forgiving you, which they've convinced themselves they have been doing. 🫩)

1️⃣You can NOT forgive them and keep going like nothing happened. That's a choice.

2️⃣ You can forgive them and keep going like nothing happened.

3️⃣ You can forgive them and change the dynamics of the relationship.

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💥Nurse Dei®️-ism: Bling! 🔔 #3 RIGHT ANSWER!

You must forgive them because ain't nobody trying to carry the weight of 3 dead elephants on your shoulders for the rest of your life. These folks are HEA-VY!

So, forgiveness is dropping that weight and taking a deep breath. Forgiveness is freedom.

But, best believe you ain't gone be doing the same things again, if you want TRUE freedom.

Some people are stuck in cycles of feeling sorry for themselves and they will whirl you right up into it. 🌪

You won't even realize you are in a situation with a person who is always feeling sorry for themselves who lack emotional intelligence; until it's too late.

How will you know?

You feel like you've been fighting the tide with them, and they always come back with another issue. Then, somehow, they have an issue with you too for not handling their issues for them.

Honey Baby Chile, the fight is pointless when they can't see that they are always fighting because they are always seeing everything as a fight. 😉

The only way that they will REALLY be able to see where the problem lies is if there ain't no more you to blame. 😉 Buh-Bye. 👋🏾

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💡Extra Free Tip: 😁 Since you haven't been able to say it in all of this time, it will be hard to do and it will be a shocker to them. Just blame it on me. 🙋🏾‍♀️😁

Tell them, "My life coach and spiritual counselor said,___________. Therefore, I'm going to have to step away from this friendship for my own mental health (balance, peace, harmony- whatever word you want to plug in there. 😉"

And when they say, "Gurl, quit lying. You ain't never had nobody. You always tell me all of your business."

Give them my name. 😉 Nurse Dei®️ at www.nursedei.com

And then sign up for real. 🤭😁 (link in the bio)

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I am Nurse Dei®️ @nursedei